What would u think about this? open to any advice please i just want to c if any one else would think this 2?

i know i shouldn't of done this but if u remember me i have reason to belive my husband is up to no good so i'm trying to find proof. he has a cell phone that his job pays 4 so i c no bill. well i heard from a friend that he showed up at her house and was kissing one of her friends. i said somthing about guess what i heard he made a big deal of course all day %26amp; denial bt then he showed me his cell phonebook he read the a's to me then showed me b thur the rest of it i let him then i went right to one that he didn't read (it was one that was added about 2mo. ago under the name ASH the only one w/a silent ring tone he took his time %26amp; organized this thing so i know no mistake i blocked my # %26amp; called its a girl) he said that she was a work person and if i called i'd find out well the next day the name was still there but the # was changed to match the rest of his co workers #'s and i called both the new is a work # that never gets answered bt voice mail the other is nothing business

What would u think about this? open to any advice please i just want to c if any one else would think this 2?
i think you are wasting your time looking for proof of something your already believe is happening. At this point, there's no way you'd believe anything he says because you don't trust him.





Stop searching through his stuff. You're only going to find what you are looking for. If you're not going to leave him, shut up.





Piss or get off the freakin' pot!
Reply:Your friend telling you that he was kissing another girl is all you need to know. Don't beat yourself up over this your wasting your time. Is it possible that your in denial?? I'm sorry this is happening but it just sounds suspicious with the phone #'s , but I think you should listen to your friend, isn't that enough??
Reply:hmmmmm... i would think he's trying to hide something and he knows you are suspicious of him so now he's trying to be more cautious and discreet and not doing a very good job at it so he either wants to get caught or is just not bright.
Reply:From personal experience I know where theres smoke theres fire. Better try to get your proof before he brings home a disease to you. Good Luck
Reply:He's definitely up to something. I wouldn't believe him if I were you. Is any of him time unaccounted for. Does he come home when he says? Does he go out and stay out late? Does he act differently?
Reply:I'd call that friend and tell them, "Think real hard. What was he wearing that day?" If that friend described clothes I knew he has, the war is on.
Reply:Oh yea he's being sneaky...that scum bag...dont let him fool you and put her number under a guys name so you will think it's a friend of his
Reply:You answered your question by saying, "you know you shouldn't have done this". This tells me, you want your marriage to work. I've known some very smart married women who've chosen to turn their heads and ignored their husbands stupidity. As, in men's heads are turned for a fling, which means absolutely NOTHING to them. They would NEVER give up their wife/family for these flings. Most married men tell these women up front "I'll never get a divorce". Let's give a man some credit for this. Some women think they have so much power they can have any man they want. Do you want to lose your husband to a woman like this? If, your husband hasn't left you within one year, after you suspect him of an affair......Be smart and keep quiet. Who knows you might be tempted one day. What will your decision be? How will you handle all those compliments and the thoughts of the newness of a relationship? Wouldn't you like think, you're strong enough to be faithful and loyal to your husband? A lady he'll be proud he's chosen to stay with, after all is said and done. Yes, I am a woman/lady......speaking from experience....no one ever said marriage was perfect. Marriage takes a lot of work. Sometimes the wife does have to work harder at it. Sometimes the husband has to........haven't you ever felt sorry for a man married to some women? Good luck %26amp; Blessings to you.........
Reply:If you feel he's lying and you can't deal with it don't put yourself through all this.... make a decision and do what you would do if you had solid proof he was cheating on you.... then do it..... let him prove to you he isn't...... don't wait around and get abused again and again.... if he does it once, he'll probably do it again too.... be strong and decision how you want to live your life and do it....good luck...